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Your Ego and Your Emotions

From the get-go infants can show interest, surprise, happiness, and even distress. This was made very evident to me when I was a nurse assisting at the birth process. What a delight to watch when a newborn nestled into Mother’s arms in total comfort or looked into Dad’s face with wide-eyed interest! We now know that infants’ facial expressions are the first signs of their emerging egos.

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Parent-Infant Attachment Styles

In studying infant-caretaker interactions, behavioral researchers have classified attachment styles into three main categories:

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The How To: Continued

What about discipline? How can parents effectively handle unacceptable and even perilous behaviors that children sometimes demonstrate? For example, when parents forbid a toddler to run out in the street, play with knives, or turn the knob on the stove, Mom and Dad shout or they physically remove the child from imminent disaster. The child feels shame. But wait. Aren’t we supposed to keep children from feeling shame?

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Emotions and Sprituality

When I was a child growing up in a Catholic family, I was very confused about the relationship between emotions and spirituality. I knew that attending mass every Sunday was meant to be spiritual, but going to confession on Saturday afternoon was another matter. Recounting my wrongdoings to the priest through the latticed window in the dimly lit confessional and being given five Hail Mary prayers to recite as penance didn’t sit well with me.

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Yes, as you continue to read these blogs you will learn ways to help your ego work in your favor and thus improve relationships bo... Read More
Monday, 25 July 2011 14:22
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I always thought of the ego as something I needed to get rid of. I’m looking forward to learning more factual information about it... Read More
Sunday, 08 May 2011 14:28
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You’re at the right place to learn more! Ongoing blogs on this site will not only explain the scientific importance of the ego in ... Read More
Friday, 13 May 2011 14:29
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Is Your Ego Too Big? Should It Be Gotten Rid Of?

The answer to both questions is no.  Behavioral research now shows that the ego not only is real but is also responsible for two very important jobs. It keeps us alive and gives us a sense of self. Just as we physically grow up, our egos have to grow up as well. When the growing doesn’t happen, the ego unable to cope with life’s contingencies, resorts to detrimental behaviors and emotional mayhem. On the other hand, scientific data solidly indicates that as the ego emotionally matures, spirituality emerges as its natural companion.

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It has been a lifelong habit to believe that when things get tough, such as distress in relationships, people’s egos can take over... Read More
Tuesday, 16 October 2012 14:24
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What can parents do to help children develop a healthy sense of self?
Tuesday, 16 October 2012 14:26
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Excellent question! #1 The more you learn about growing up your ego and apply what you know to yourself, the more you will advance... Read More
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